Stop condemning others. Is it possible to?
Few people manage to live at least a day without gossip. Unfortunately, you can often accidentally hear in the dialogue of lovers, friends, relatives the following phrases:- “No, well, have you seen how Dasha was crazy? This is some kind of nightmare! ”-“ Lenka is raised again, although less than me works. Surely he is sleeping with the boss, that's the whole secret. ”“ How my mother-in-law got me: I have no one, and it’s also trying to teach us a relationship, the brain makes us all day. It is not surprising that her husband escaped from her. ”And these are still relatively cultural examples. The purpose of losing the shortcomings of others is primitive - to find an occasion to rejoice and temporarily raise self -esteem. While there is fat women, you can allow yourself not to engage in your body. While there are many families around with the unemployed head of the family, it is possible to justify his own partner who lies on the couch. And if he works, but receives a penny, also unscrewed: he can feel excellent against the background of those who are not employed at all. Minuses of the habit of condemning the first, any more conscious person is obvious: you condemn others for not recognizing in yourself yourself. So do not humiliate yourself with unflattering comments in someone else's address. Secondly, some unknown laws of the universe once, a year or ten, make everyone feel all that she condemned others. Others will become a habit, it will become difficult for you to be able to feel gratitude. And without this feeling, it is impossible to feel fully happy. In addition, self-esteem will also suffer: you are accustomed to condemning others, most likely you will begin to more harshly criticize yourself. How to stop condemning simple ways for those who decide to overcome a bad habit.- Sitter phrases. I want to colorfully describe my friend? Say that she is “strange” or “peculiar.”- Gently interrupt the interlocutors who want to scratch their tongues, translate the topic. If it was not possible, just leave the room .- Some behavior outrages for quite objective reasons? Just tell the offender about this, but without affecting his personality. NO: “You enrage me with your stupidity! “A:“ When you say that which is not true, I feel that I am starting to be angry. ”- If you are worried about the behavior of a loved one, try to gently give advice on how to do the best. For example, there is a chance that your younger sister really believes in the love of a married man and his fast divorce, so periodically jumps to him in bed. Your task is to try to explain to her that she is mistaken without condemning. - Expand the circle of communication. When you see how different people live in this world, and at the same time everyone is beautiful in their own way, you will understand that everything is relative. You will think about your place in this world and the presence of the right to judge others. Ask clarifying questions to those who are least like you to better understand them. Study other cultures. Well, most importantly - make your life so rich that you do not have time to think about other people! Plus, you will have a great topic for talking with loved ones - you yourself and your achievements. Puede registrar su cuenta en Mostbet con un solo clic, pero lo más importante es saber cómo acceder a este sitio, porque todo se hace a través de un espejo. https://mostbetperu.com/registro/ funciona como un enlace regular al sitio web oficial de la compañía y le permite evitar cualquier bloqueo que pueda hacer el estado.
